The Master’s Creed Above all else the Dominant cherishes His slave, in the knowledge that the gift the submissive gives Him is the greatest gift of all. The Dominant is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Him, but knows how to share the pleasure that comes from that precious gift. The Dominant is in control of himself first and foremost, so that He may control others. As a stern and demanding Master, He can cause His slave to cry real tears. As the consummate lover, He will then kiss the tears away, without stepping out of character. In times of trouble, a Master will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a slave to put Him before her career, or family, just to satisfy His own pleasure. To win His slave’s mind, body, spirit, soul, and love, He knows He must first win her trust. He will show his slave humor, kindness, and warmth. He must always show her that His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her attention, that this is a Man she can learn from, and trust His direction. He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He will fight for his lady’s honor. He proves to her that he is someone she can lean on, and depend on. When it comes time to teach His slave her lessons of obedience, He is a strong and unyielding professor. He will accept no flaw, nothing less than perfection from His student. Never does He use discipline without a good reason. When He does it is always with a knowledgeable and careful hand. He is always open to communication and discussion, always ready to hear her wants and needs. He is patient, taking time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of Him grows, so will they. He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to Him out of the want of pleasing Him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body and never violates the trust given to Him. He is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life. Open minded enough to learn new things. Strong enough to grow. His tools are mind, body, spirit, soul, and love. He understands that each partner gains most from pleasuring the other. And both of them know that love and trust are the only bindings that truly hold.

well me and summer are no longer speaking

i chatted some one new her name is Amy

i call her angel  that her nick

we talked  last night about our selves

i have a dark wild side to me

i have a fantasy of being Tide up and bound

during sex  wile angel is in control  of

me

letting her take control of me

and letting her have wild sex

with me till i said stop

or a safety word

or playing with body paint

feel her nails softly caressing my body

and softly kissing me all over

and feeling the joy of sub missing to her wim

but those is just a fan-sty

we talked about it

she said that she would enjoy

that she would enjoy it

very much to let me put trust in to her to allow

that  to happen

am i  freaky

about this or am i nut

i want a opinion forme some one in this feild

of bdsm

this is summer and me she wrote  the poems i post by her

we talk to one a nosher and spend time with one a norther she is doing well

she is sick at the moment this year in 2008

for Xmas she asked me to get her a bottle of  skin cream

i was like ok ill can do that

we talk every now and again

last night she called me

to tell me

how she felt

about me

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well iv lerand you cant rush love and dating

if you do i makes it hard to date the woman

iv made good friends

over the month on my quest for a soul mate

but it is kind hard for me

iv fallen to fast or to slow for them

i cant decide what i want

to be with them or  to sleep with em

ill just sit back and relax if she makes the frist move

Thain ill know

ruil 1 dont ask can we have sex  now

ruil 2 don’t try to kiss em off the bat unless she start it first

ruil 4 make sure she is a woman and not a guy trying to trick you

ruil5 don’t accuse her of go in what a nother guy

ruil 6 dont asume your dating  take it slow

sometimes
They do not see these tears I cry.
I do not think they even try.
I’m handicaped, so when I think of how my life should be I get depressed.
why do I sometimes feel this way well..take a guess!
it feels like noone feels my pain.
I sometimes think I’m insane.
sometimes I think I’m treated unfair,
sometimes I just wish for my feelings, certain people would care!
I wish I could see what’s missing in my life and do….
Whatever it takes to make my dreams come true!!

Written by: Summer Jewele

your eyes

shine like the stars in the night sky

your smile is the sun of day
your tears are the rain

your breath is the wind

i hear your heart when i lay my head on your chest

how the rhythm is soothing

to me i want to fall fast asleep in your arms

i lay there dreaming of a life we can share

with one another